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Fashion Flash: The Weekly Online Newsletter for 40-Plus Women

This week, Fashion Flash is hosted by Erika at Notes from My Dressing Table.  Click on her name to go to her blog, where you will find the array of blog posts being featured this week.  Among this week’s posts is mine on “How to Layer a Slip Dress Like a Pro.”

Notes from My Dressing Table is a beauty blog.  Erika likes to focus on skin care, reviews makeup and nail polish, and occasionally posts tutorials.  She’s also a member of The Beauty Spotlight Team, a group of bloggers that shares articles, reviews, tips and tricks to help you look your best.

Enjoy the diverse subjects ranging from beauty to fashion to travel to wellness, lifestyle and more written by the Fashion Flash network of women bloggers 40 and over.  Fashion Flash bloggers are here to help you be your best self, proving that age doesn’t matter.

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How to Wear a Denim Vest Your Own Special Way

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Koret Stretch Jean Vest from Old Pueblo

Denim vests aren’t just for biker babes or cowgirls!  This staple updates classic outfits, making them look more stylish, and can even add a layer of warmth.  Age doesn’t matter.

Usually we think of wearing a denim vest on laid-back days.  But it can also dress down something fancy so that you can wear your special clothes anytime.

On cold days, you can add a denim vest under a jean jacket, or wear it over a cozy sweater with a scarf.

Besides denim blue, it comes in colors, patterns and sometimes with embroidery.

Unless the denim vest comes with matching jeans, it looks best with jeans in a different color or at least a different shade of blue.  It’s nice to let it stand alone as one denim piece and pair it with bottoms in a different material, like faux leather or ponte knit.  I would even dare say you could wear it with lace or chiffon or tulle.

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Denim vest, Lame Tank, Tulle Skirt, Monili Belt + d’Orsay Pump from Brunello Cucinelli Lookbook at Neiman Marcus

Here are 16 Ideas for How to Wear a Denim Vest:

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The Peacock Shows You How to Stand Out

If you haven’t yet, I’d like to encourage you to let your true self stand out and be noticed.  Go ahead and be bold, like the peacock!  Show your true colors, inside and out.  Age doesn’t matter.  Why wait?

If you are reading this, it is time to be blessed with the magic of the peacock’s message.  If you want others to be blessed with this energy, share this article ?

Close your eyes and imagine the peacock’s glowing array of colors.  Feel the power of that beauty.  Now take that inspiration and think of how you’d like to express yourself just as freely and boldly.

What are your favorite colors?  Which ones look best on you?  What are your best outfits?  What have you worn that makes you feel beautiful, sexy, powerful?  Put these things on rotation and wear them again…(not something I say often, huh?  Usually I’m all about variety.  I’ll have to take my own advice.  Lol!)

In Indian lore, any living creature that comes across your path brings you a message.  These “totem” animals represent the subconscious mind, giving the information about the energy held.  The Indians believed that each and every one of these beautiful powerful animals have medicine powers and knowledge to share.  When you see them, they are helping your to learn, grow and expand your consciousness.

I’d like to talk a little more about true beauty within and without…

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How to Make Time for Ourselves

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My son, Chris, and I have been making health goals together each month for years.  I wrote about our experiences with this in my Health Goal Diary here on the blog.  It has made a big difference in our health habits, especially with diet and exercise.

It has been beneficial to both of us.  Age doesn’t matter.  Besides keeping us healthy, it has kept our weight down and made us look our best.

We took a break when the weather got cold in the fall and the holidays rolled around.  We got busy, sick, and then surrounded by holiday feasts and goodies.

When we decided to take a break from making health goals, we had a conversation about how overwork was taking a toll on us.  Self care was lost in the shuffle and we needed to find time for ourselves and our needs.  It was a goal that has not been easy to achieve.

Intending to think about what I needed to do to make time for myself, I dove right back into my work and never gave it another thought.  So I’m taking a moment in writing this post about self care to explore what I need to do that I haven’t been doing all this time.  I’m hoping this will be helpful to you as well.

Included is:

  • What happens when we don’t make time for ourselves?
  • Personal examples, both unsuccessful and successful.
  • The basics of self care.
  • Self-care tips based on specific needs.
  • 20 general self-care tips.

As you read on, you’ll find more and more helpful information beyond what you might already think of, which I hope will inspire you with some helpful ideas.

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